Hi everyone,
Well, it's always difficult to start and it is more difficult here as I was not aware myself that I would be writing somewhere apart from chats, letters and somewhat in Exams. But then there are people who love my average writing for something. They seem to like it, to enjoy it and they push me to do these things. I just owe them a big thank you and everyone can be assured I rarely use this term but when I do I mean it to the core. So I dedicate this first on the blog to the one who has been asking me to start. Today I am starting, learning something new, this experience is strange but I am loving it. When I said yes to the thought of writing a blog I was not serious and I am being very honest here. I said yes just because I felt you would forget after a few times or I would make you give up after a few attempts. But then I forgot that it's a strong mould that shapes not the one that one can shape. So ICE CHIPS once again and as decided I am writing a blog and this one is for you. No hopes to impress you with this piece of text, not even that you like it but just a genuine attempt to do what I have been asked to do.
Today I am going to write on "FRIENDSHIPS" in short I am going to write what my eyes see of this world and what logic my brain interprets that image into. So I would start with something that defines a human being
"FRIENDSHIP "
Although it would have been just another word, a casual relationship or a worldly affair for me but then I learned that there is more to it. I won't be wrong in saying that I don't value any human relationship more than that of friendship but here you may ask me what about My family? My parents? My siblings? The answer to all of it is very simple and it would ease your nerves on my understanding about this topic "FRIENDSHIPS". So to me, friendships were never far away. I was a go-getter in adding new people(friends) to my limited circle. If I will tell you why because I was made friends at home with everyone. Now to say we go ahead and quote that my dad is my best friend, my mom is my best friend or my sister, my brother or XYZ relation in my family is my best friend. But then if it's just a saying and we are not feeling the same level of comfort that we have in friends would spoil this. I learned a lesson early God knows when but I was able to understand that friendships are not about being available to someone all the time or in bad/good times, it is about truly understanding when someone can't be there. It is about having the trust that we won't have to ask the question tags to get our answers but we will know that there is a solid reason for this temporary unavailability. It's about sharing similar levels of trust, mutual understanding and respect. It is indeed the most crucial element in all human forged relationships your loss for one of the elements into a relationship swings the thread open in the air just below a sword to cut through it.
It is not temporary, it is permanent.
It is the end of ego and the start of respect.
It is one of the most selfless multidimensional aspects of life.
To end this I would say that I found my GOD in my friends
There is a saying by the great LORD SWAMI SAMARTHA which says Bhiu nakos, me tujhya pathishi aahe, fortunately, or unfortunately, I always found a friend behind my back in my need of the hour.
So maybe LORD SAMARTHA himself has decided to help me by becoming my friend.
I found him on the back seat while riding way out of my trouble,
I found him besides when I needed to pick a burden I am not capable of.
I see him smile to cheer me up
I see him in a lot of places
But I always see him in my friends.
Dedicated to friends who make life beautiful,
Make a Birthday to Happy birthday
Turn a fake smile to a broader dose of laughter.
Who wipes the shaded tear and stop the Dam to follow.
To people who make life Amazing.
And to- FARHEEN.
(TO FORCE ME INTO WRITING THIS)
Well, it's always difficult to start and it is more difficult here as I was not aware myself that I would be writing somewhere apart from chats, letters and somewhat in Exams. But then there are people who love my average writing for something. They seem to like it, to enjoy it and they push me to do these things. I just owe them a big thank you and everyone can be assured I rarely use this term but when I do I mean it to the core. So I dedicate this first on the blog to the one who has been asking me to start. Today I am starting, learning something new, this experience is strange but I am loving it. When I said yes to the thought of writing a blog I was not serious and I am being very honest here. I said yes just because I felt you would forget after a few times or I would make you give up after a few attempts. But then I forgot that it's a strong mould that shapes not the one that one can shape. So ICE CHIPS once again and as decided I am writing a blog and this one is for you. No hopes to impress you with this piece of text, not even that you like it but just a genuine attempt to do what I have been asked to do.
Today I am going to write on "FRIENDSHIPS" in short I am going to write what my eyes see of this world and what logic my brain interprets that image into. So I would start with something that defines a human being
"FRIENDSHIP "
Although it would have been just another word, a casual relationship or a worldly affair for me but then I learned that there is more to it. I won't be wrong in saying that I don't value any human relationship more than that of friendship but here you may ask me what about My family? My parents? My siblings? The answer to all of it is very simple and it would ease your nerves on my understanding about this topic "FRIENDSHIPS". So to me, friendships were never far away. I was a go-getter in adding new people(friends) to my limited circle. If I will tell you why because I was made friends at home with everyone. Now to say we go ahead and quote that my dad is my best friend, my mom is my best friend or my sister, my brother or XYZ relation in my family is my best friend. But then if it's just a saying and we are not feeling the same level of comfort that we have in friends would spoil this. I learned a lesson early God knows when but I was able to understand that friendships are not about being available to someone all the time or in bad/good times, it is about truly understanding when someone can't be there. It is about having the trust that we won't have to ask the question tags to get our answers but we will know that there is a solid reason for this temporary unavailability. It's about sharing similar levels of trust, mutual understanding and respect. It is indeed the most crucial element in all human forged relationships your loss for one of the elements into a relationship swings the thread open in the air just below a sword to cut through it.
It is not temporary, it is permanent.
It is the end of ego and the start of respect.
It is one of the most selfless multidimensional aspects of life.
To end this I would say that I found my GOD in my friends
There is a saying by the great LORD SWAMI SAMARTHA which says Bhiu nakos, me tujhya pathishi aahe, fortunately, or unfortunately, I always found a friend behind my back in my need of the hour.
So maybe LORD SAMARTHA himself has decided to help me by becoming my friend.
I found him on the back seat while riding way out of my trouble,
I found him besides when I needed to pick a burden I am not capable of.
I see him smile to cheer me up
I see him in a lot of places
But I always see him in my friends.
Dedicated to friends who make life beautiful,
Make a Birthday to Happy birthday
Turn a fake smile to a broader dose of laughter.
Who wipes the shaded tear and stop the Dam to follow.
To people who make life Amazing.
And to- FARHEEN.
(TO FORCE ME INTO WRITING THIS)